HEALTHY MARRIAGE

Most women expect that their partner will have some sort of interest in pornography, whether this is in the form of films or magazines. It just seems to be accepted that men like to engage with erotic material. Yet with erotic stories for women it seems to be almost frowned upon and as such has become something of a quiet and secretive practice. 

Erotic stories for women and sales of erotic fiction have, continued to grow year-on-year. While there is a notion that women are not as sexual as men, this is just not the case. They simply have use a different medium!

Erotic stories for women are for the most part, less graphic and explicit, however, they are nonetheless stimulating for the women who enjoy them. The reason for this is that women and men are inherently different when it comes to the things that turn them on.

Generally, men are visually stimulated. This means they are more turned on by images. Men are also more primitive or animalistic when it comes to sex. On contrary, women are audibly stimulated. This means they are more turned on by what they hear. For women, sex is a more emotional experience. In essence, reading erotic stories for women that often present a romanticised view of sex are as much of a turn on for women as graphic pornography is for men.

So why, if reading erotic fiction is just a healthy expression of female sexuality, is it kept such a secret for so many women? 

It would seem there is something of a double standard in terms of what women expect and accept as 'boys being boys' and what men are prepared to accept from their wives and girlfriends in terms of reading erotic fiction. Many women feel that if their partner were to discover their choice of reading material includes erotic fiction, it would be an absolute disaster for the relationship.

This is largely due to the fact that men do not tend to react well to their partners reading about the sexual prowess of other men, even if they are just fictional characters!  They feel somehow inadequate and threatened.  In an attempt to avoid this reaction or denting their man's fragile ego, most women hide their erotic fiction from their partner rather than incorporating it into their sex life.

However, this could be about to change with the development of personalised erotic stories for women that depict the experiences and fantasies of individual couples.  A small number of professional writers have spotted a gap in the market for custom written erotic stories that enable women to involve their partners without the risk of them feeling threatened.  

Women who have bought these custom written erotic stories,  report that they have found that rather than their partner having their ego dented, it inflates their ego and makes them feel desired.   Many men have been so excited, they have purchased custom written stories for their women as erotic gifts.  One man who purchased a story for his wife said "I get extremely turned on by the idea that my wife is reading sex stories about the things we do.  Seeing her so turned on by revisiting our sexual experiences makes me feel great".

This development in the world of erotica has enabled women to open up to their partner and  share their sexuality in a healthy way.  For women who enjoy erotic fiction and no longer wish for it to be their private secret, involving your partner in a custom written personal story is guaranteed to spice up your sex life and make him feel wanted!